Self Care isn’t Selfish, It’s Necessary

Self Care Isn’t Selfish, It’s Necessary

How are you feeling now Christmas has been and gone and the New Year celebrations are over?

It’s back to the ‘norm’ and it’s also that time of year when we often feel a slump in our energy. It’s common to catch a cold, turn to comfort food and lose focus on taking care of ourselves.

It happens so easily.

It is at this point, when you feel less inclined to take care of yourself that you really need to make self care a priority. It’s a little like the analogy of putting on your life jacket first in an airplane emergency, before trying to help others. If you’re not fit and healthy you can’t take proper care of those around you.

If you have responsibility to take care of others such as your children, family or elderly relatives, you have a responsibility to take care of yourself too. It’s not time to put blame or guilt on yourself if you haven’t always done this.

It’s understandable. Often carers put others before themselves to their own detriment. It doesn’t have to be this way.

Imagine if you could take care of all those around you feeling energised, vibrant, clear-minded and resilient. Practising simple self care can be an important part of your holistic health routine. It can bring you more balance and harmony, so you are capable of giving the very best of yourself to your loved ones.

Now, you might be thinking – How can I include more self care into my already very busy life?

Here are some easy ideas to practise more self care regularly:

Regularly enjoy a relaxing bath
Get a massage or a Complementary Therapy
Eat wholesome nutritious meals
Hydrate fully throughout the day
Avoid excessive alcohol, caffeine and sugar
Take time out for yourself, book yourself in for some me-time
Socialise with caring and supportive friends and family
Take gentle exercise like walking in the woods or around a park
Enjoy your hobbies and interests
Practice kind self talk – dismiss negative self talk and be kind to yourself

The key to self care is to not wait until you feel the need for it.

If you start to feel low energy, low mood, comfort eating – intervene quickly to bring yourself back to optimal levels. Ideally, include self care every week in your holistic health routine.

For instance, plan to exercise 3-4 times each week such as every other day. Make time for your hobbies on a weekend. Plan your meals for the week ahead so that there’s no last minute Take Aways or Fast Food binges. Take a relaxing bath a couple of times every week with detoxing Epsom Salts and Essential Oils. Take a walk with friends once a week and book an appointment for a relaxing and immune boosting Massage once per week.

How nice does all that sound?

Give it a try. Make it a habit to incorporate self care every week and you’ll rapidly feel the benefits and it will become intuitive to make these rituals a priority.


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